Des Plaines

Eighteen-year-old Mary Fiderius was in love with thirty-four-year-old Isidor G. Manfroid, and on 5 February 1889 they married in Cleveland, Ohio.[1] Between 1889 and 1907 they had a total of eight children of which only five lived to adulthood. [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] They moved frequently and lived in Pittsburg,[8] Cleveland,[9] Toledo[10] and finally settling in Chicago[11] around 1900. Somewhere between 1908 and 1910 Isidor and Mary divorced.[12] I don’t know the reason for the divorce and have been unable to find the divorce records. Considering Mary’s religion, the only reason for divorce was desertion. I believe that George deserted Mary and she was left with the children trying to support them by herself. In 1908 the oldest child, George was 16 followed by Christine14, Philip 12, Arthur 7 and Theordore 4. There was not enough money to support them all. The older children were in school or could get jobs. If Mary went to work, who was going to take care of the younger children? She had to make a big decision, should she give up her two youngest children? She turned to her church for help and decided to temporarily give up her two youngest sons. Arthur went to St. Mary’s Training school for boys in Des Plaines, Illinois.[13] It was a place for orphans, neglected children, and for children whose mothers could not take care of them. It was run by the Archdiocese of Chicago.[14] Later, St. Mary’s training school became known as Marysville.[15] Theodore went to St. Vincent’s Infant Asylum in Chicago[16] This was also a place for orphans, neglected children and for families who could not support their children and also run by the Archdiocese of Chicago.[17] Mary had already lost 3 children at young ages and now she must give up two. She did not know how long before she would be able to get them back if ever. In 1911 Mary marries Adam Beischer.[18] Adam was working as a cigar maker, and I assume sometime after she remarried, she got her children back. In1920 Arthur now 19, and Theodore now 16, are living with Mary and Adam.[19] Adam helped Mary raise her sons, and they considered Adam their father and Adam considered Arthur and Theodore as his sons. Arthur grew up to become a bookie and owned a tavern in Chicago. He married twice and had no children. Theodore married seven times and had several children by some of his seven wives. Christine was married at least three times and had children by each husband. George and Philip married once and stayed married until their deaths. George had two children and Philip had one child. Mary and Adam stayed married until Adam’s death in 1962. Mary died a few months later in 1962. [20]

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[1] Marriage record for G. Isidor Manfroid and Mary Fiderius, State of Ohio, CuyahogaCounty, SS., 5 February 1889.

[2] 1900 United States Census, State: Illinois, County: Cook, Township: WestTown, City: Chicago, Enumeration Dist: 293, Ward 10, Sheet 16B, Line 69

[3]Certificate of Birth for Arthur Anton Manfroid, 5 January 1901, State of Illinois , Department of Public Health, Division of vital Statistics registered no 72637, Chicago, Cook County, Illinois

[4] [27] Texas, Deaths, 1977 – 1986 index and images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1951-22864-3780=71?cc=M9S8-8SD:2136566208, 1978 Vol 140, Sep, Certificates69501-70000, Harris County, Image 149 of 579 for Theodore Manfroid 8 August 1978.

[5] Department of Health: City of Chicago: Bureau of Vital Statistics: Undertakers Report of Death for Isidor Manfroid (Son of G. Isidor Manfroid) 12247, 22 March 1901.

[6] Family Search International Genealogical Index V 5.0 North America, Batch No: C748680, Year 1890, Call No. 0499282 V. 38-40 Film type.

[7] Illinois Chicago, Catholic Church Records, 1833-1925 database with images, FamilySearch HY-DY93_dIV?cc+1452409&wc=M66L-STP%3A39600602 : 8 February 2017), Sacred Heart Parish (Melrose Park)> Baptisms Marriages 1893-1908 > image 22 of 26; Catholic Church parishes, Chicago Diocese, Chicago.

[8] Family Search International Genealogical Index V 5.0 North America, Batch No: C748680, Year 1890, Call No. 0499282 V. 38-40 Film type.

[9] Cleveland City Directories 1894, 1895, 1896, 1897 list George Manfroid living at 235 Herald, Cleveland, Ohio

[10] Toledo City Directories 1898, 1899, 1900 listed George Manfroid as living at 259 Caldonia and 255 Woodford, Toledo, Ohio

[11] 1900 United States Census, State: Illinois, County: Cook, Township: WestTown, City: Chicago, Enumeration Dist: 293, Ward 10, Sheet 16B, Line 69

[12] Children Georgius Isidor was born in 1907 and Arthur and Theodore are living in institutions in 1910. I deduced that George and Mary must have divorced between 1907 and 1910.

[13] 1910 United States Census, Wheeling, Cook, Illinois; Roll T624-241, Page 21B, Enumeration District 0132; FHL microfilm 1374254.

[14] St. Mary’s Training School for boys now Marysville in Des Plaines . Home faced dark times before – Chicago Tribune

[15] Ibid.

[16] 1910 United States Census, Chicago, Ward 21, Cook, Illinois; Roll T624-264. Page 168, Enumeration District 0923; FHL microfilm 13742777.

[17] St Vincent Infant Asylum The Catholic Charities St. Vincent Center Historical Marker

[18] Obituary for Adam Beischer, Oak Park Leaves May 17, 1962, P.76

[19] Year: 1920; Census Place: Forest Park, Cook, Illinois; Roll: T625 362; Page: 20B Enumeration District: 185; Image 696. Ancestry.com. 1920 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Provo, Utah, USA. Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2009. Images reproduced by Familysearch.. Original Data: Fourteenth Census of the Untited States 1920; (National Archives Microfilm Publication T625, 2076 rolls) Records of the Bureau of the Census, Record Group 29; National Archives, Washington D.C.

[20] From Author, Gail Grunst’s, personal knowledge.

A third cousin of mine, Terry Niko, was killed in a storm that hit Des Plaines, Illinois in July 1972. The newspaper report says the storm had tornado like winds, and heavy rain. There were funnel-like clouds that streak across the sky in a south easterly direction. Roofs were blown off, a building was leveled to the ground, extensive damages and broken windows to buildings. Many trees were down throughout the area. Homes were damaged due to the high winds, flying debris, and tree branches. It looks like Terry was the only one to lose his life in this terrible storm.

Terry niko (2)

It’s a little hard to read so I will transcribe the part about my third cousin Terry Niko.

“Police said Terry Niko 23 of 7500 Elmhurst Road, Bensenville died at Holy Family Hospital 40 minutes after he was crushed in his car by a falling tree limb in the 700 block of Graceland Ave.

According to reports Niko, alone in his car at the time was driving southbound on Graceland Ave when the large limb fell on the roof of his car about 100 feet south of Prairie Ave. It reportedly took 8 policemen to lift the heavy limb off the car.”[1]

Unfortunately, I did not know Terry, and I didn’t know of his existence until recently. You may wonder how I found a cousin that I did not know existed.

One of the things I like to do is reverse genealogy. You might ask, “What is reverse genealogy?” I start from the past and move to the present. I start with what I know. For example, I have already traced backward from myself to great-grandfather, Carl Desens, and to the 2^nd great-grandfather, John Desens. I know my 2^nd great-grandfather, John Desens, had three children that lived, married, and had children. Who were they and who are their children and grandchildren and so on? By doing this I hope to find living second and third cousins. I always hope to find someone who will share my interest in searching our common ancestor or may have been told family stories that I haven’t heard yet.

Here is an example of reverse genealogy. I start with John Desens family listed here.

johann desens

Carl is my great-grandfather, and I have searched all of his eight children. Now I would like to search for Hanna’s children. So I search various sources such as census, vital records, and newspapers. After I did that, here is what I found about Hanna Desens family.

Hanna desens

I researched each of Hanna’s children. Here is the family of her third child Martha:

Martha R

Then I researched each of Martha’s children. Here is the family of Martha’s third child Irene.

Martha Rosenwinkel

Now I researched each of Irene’s children. When I got to last one, Terry Niko, I noticed that he was only 23 when he died, and I wondered why he died so young. A search in the newspaper archive answered my question. That is how I came to find Terry and his sad story. May Terry rest in peace, and God Bless his family.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks topic this week is Storms.

[1] Arlington Heights, Illinois, Daily Herald Suburban Chicago, Monday, July 17, 1972, Section 1 Pg. 3.

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