At times, I encounter conflicting information regarding my maternal grandmother. My father always maintained that she was born in 1900, a detail that was simple to remember as her age corresponded with the year. This assertion led me to accept his word without question, particularly since she passed away before my birth, denying me the opportunity to gather firsthand information. For years, I held onto the belief that her birth year was indeed 1900; however, apart from my father’s claim, I lacked substantial evidence to support it. She was reportedly born at home in Forest Park, Cook County, Illinois, contributing a nostalgic backdrop to her early life. Consequently, I endeavored to locate her birth certificate in Cook County, but my search was fruitless. It became apparent that, during that time, Illinois did not mandate civil birth records, complicating my investigation further. I speculated that perhaps her birth certificate was simply overlooked. I then sought alternative documentation through church records, anticipating they would serve as a reliable adjunct to official records. Given the lack of Internet resources for data retrieval at the time, I needed to visit the Church in Forest Park, IL. While it was not overly burdensome considering my 40-mile distance, my full-time job posed significant challenges in finding an appropriate day for the trip. I even postponed this journey for a couple of years while I explored census records. To my astonishment, she was absent from the 1900 census conducted in June, despite her birth occurring in March of that year. If she truly was born in 1900, her name should have appeared. The 1910 census recorded her at 9 years of age, while the 1920 census noted she was 19, and by the 1930 census, she was 30 years old. Depending on the census reviewed, her birth year was variably documented as either 1900 or 1901. It is well understood that census ages can often be inaccurate—frequently misreported by a year or two due to clerical errors or varying interpretations by census-takers. Further complicating matters, her death certificate listed her birth year as 1901, in stark contrast to her gravestone which proudly claimed 1900. I also received information indicating she was married in Wheaton, DuPage, Illinois. Since the DuPage County seat in Winfield was closer to my location than Forest Park, I decided to make the journey to obtain her marriage certificate. This document was particularly valuable to me because it contained her mother’s maiden name. Curiously, she married on March 22, 1919, merely a day before her birthday. The marriage certificate indicated she was 19 at the time of marriage, implying a birth year of 1899, approaching her 20th birthday the following day. However, I began to question whether she reported her age as 19 merely because she would officially reach that age the very next day. If that were the case, it might indeed substantiate her birth year as 1900. After compiling the various pieces of information, I ultimately visited St. John Lutheran Church in Forest Park in search of her birth record. Although I did not locate her birth record there, I did uncover her confirmation record, which asserted her birth year as 1900. It also indicated that she had been baptized at St. Paul Lutheran Church in Forest Park. Unfortunately, time constraints prevented me from traveling to St. Paul for further records that day. I intended to revisit Forest Park to explore St. Paul Lutheran Church at a later date; however, life’s demands deterred me from doing so. Subsequently, while researching on ancestry.com, I chanced upon the U.S. Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Church Records dating from 1781 to 1969 and decided to inquire further about my grandmother. To my amazement, I discovered her baptism record, which indicated her birth year as 1901, thereby introducing another layer of complexity to my investigation and leaving me with additional questions regarding the several date discrepancies encountered throughout my research.

Here are clues about her birth year:

• My Father said his mother was born in 1900.
• She does not appear to be on the 1900 Census with the rest of her family. Census taken in June 1900 Helen born in March 1900.¹
• The 1910² and 1920 Census list her age as 9 and 19 making her birth year 1901.³
• The 1930 Census lists her age as 30 making her birth year 1900.⁴
• Her marriage record list her age as 19 on the day before her birthday in 1919. This would make her birth year 1899.⁵
• Confirmation record lists her birth year as 1900.⁶
• Baptism record list her birth year as 1901.⁷
• Her death record lists her birth year as 1901.⁸
• Her gravestone says 1900.⁹

I chose the church baptism record showing her birthday as 23 March 1901 and baptism on 12 May 1901, as her official year of birth because the baptism is closest to her birth and most likely accurate.

Week 9 conflicting clues 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Copyright © 2026 Gail Grunst

---

^{1. Year: 1900; Census Place: Proviso, Cook, Illinois; Roll: T623 294; Page: 53A; Enumeration District: 1182.}

^{2. Year; 1910; Census Place: Proviso, Cook, Illinois; Roll: T624_240; Page: 19a; Enumeration District: 0088; FHL microfilm: 1374253}

^3. Year: 1920; Census Place: Forest Park, Cook, Illinois; Roll: T625_362; Page: 24B; Enumeration District: 185; Image: 704.

^4. Year: 1930; Census Place: Proviso, Cook, Illinois; Page: 17B; Enumeration District: 2301; FHL microfilm: 2340241

^5. “George Manfroid marriage Record to Helen Desens, Wheaton, DuPage, Illinois,” 22 March 1919. Original located at DuPage County Government Offices, 505 N County Farm Road, Winfield, DuPage, Illinois.

^6. “Confirmation Record for Helen Desens,” born 23 March 1900, confirmed 5 April 1914, St. St John Congregational book 1908 – 1926, Page 227. Book located at John Lutheran Church, 305 Circle Ave., Forest Park, Cook County, Illinois.

^7. “Baptism record for Helen Desens,” Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Archives; Elk Grove Village, Illinois; Congregational Records Source Information:  Ancestry.com. U.S., Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Church Records, 1781-1969 [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015.

^8. “Death record for Helen Manfroid,” Elmhurst, DuPage, Illinois, 4 September 1946. Original located at DuPage County Government Offices, 505 N County Farm Road, Winfield, DuPage, Illinois.

^9. Ancestry.com. U.S., Find a Grave® Index, 1600s-Current [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2012.Original data: Find a Grave. Find a Grave®. http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi.